Truth Behind Lies
Is honesty really the best policy? I don’t think so. And it is certainly not true if the truth is bitter. There are some truths which are better hidden than revealed. There are certain truths which are better kept in mind than saying it aloud.
Your life is what you make it. And if you want it to be beautiful and filled with positivity you need to keep out the negativity. Keeping out the negativity does not mean ignoring it. You can’t ignore the dark part of life. Keeping out the negativity means acknowledging the dark part and keeping it inside you. I don’t know why but somehow I think saying the bitter truth aloud makes it look more real. It is not that I am running away, it’s just that I am downplaying it. The dark part is to be dealt with all by myself I don’t think saying it aloud will help me in anyway. Why should I give something to someone that is not theirs?
When you reply ‘I am great’ to ‘how are you?’ it makes you look good and makes you somehow feel good even if you are not okay. It’s like you know you are not okay but you are making it easy by saying a lie to someone. And believe me if it makes you feel better and the one who asked you even better then I think lying is a good option.
Don’t worry about God punishing you, God Himself has taught us this trick. You ask how? Let me take the opportunity to explain it to you. Bacteria and other germs are all over our surrounding. Imagine if you could see those micro organisms with your naked eyes, how awful that would be! You won’t even be able to breathe in such an atmosphere that is filled with germs, bacteria and all those stuff. But just because we are not able to see it, it makes us easy to breathe in the atmosphere and eat the road side junk foods happily. It does not mean that we don’t know that the roadside junk food is unhealthy or the atmosphere in which we breathe in is polluted or filled with those micro organisms. But not seeing it makes us easy to live with it.
So, it’s God who gave us the limited ability to see that we should be thankful for. It’s He who taught us to live your life focusing on the good things and downplaying the negatives as if it does not exist. In fact, I think it’s the only way a person can be always happy. See, I revealed the ultimate secret to be happy! I think the proverb ‘honesty is the best policy’ should be hereafter written with an * sign in the end and should say ‘*Conditions Apply’ at the end of the page ;-)
Your life is what you make it. And if you want it to be beautiful and filled with positivity you need to keep out the negativity. Keeping out the negativity does not mean ignoring it. You can’t ignore the dark part of life. Keeping out the negativity means acknowledging the dark part and keeping it inside you. I don’t know why but somehow I think saying the bitter truth aloud makes it look more real. It is not that I am running away, it’s just that I am downplaying it. The dark part is to be dealt with all by myself I don’t think saying it aloud will help me in anyway. Why should I give something to someone that is not theirs?
When you reply ‘I am great’ to ‘how are you?’ it makes you look good and makes you somehow feel good even if you are not okay. It’s like you know you are not okay but you are making it easy by saying a lie to someone. And believe me if it makes you feel better and the one who asked you even better then I think lying is a good option.
Don’t worry about God punishing you, God Himself has taught us this trick. You ask how? Let me take the opportunity to explain it to you. Bacteria and other germs are all over our surrounding. Imagine if you could see those micro organisms with your naked eyes, how awful that would be! You won’t even be able to breathe in such an atmosphere that is filled with germs, bacteria and all those stuff. But just because we are not able to see it, it makes us easy to breathe in the atmosphere and eat the road side junk foods happily. It does not mean that we don’t know that the roadside junk food is unhealthy or the atmosphere in which we breathe in is polluted or filled with those micro organisms. But not seeing it makes us easy to live with it.
So, it’s God who gave us the limited ability to see that we should be thankful for. It’s He who taught us to live your life focusing on the good things and downplaying the negatives as if it does not exist. In fact, I think it’s the only way a person can be always happy. See, I revealed the ultimate secret to be happy! I think the proverb ‘honesty is the best policy’ should be hereafter written with an * sign in the end and should say ‘*Conditions Apply’ at the end of the page ;-)
I totally agree have always beleived in not saying the truth if it is to harm any person. It also dosent matter to me much bcos there are sooooooooooooooooo many bad things that i do in life and another lie to the list will neways not give me any specialised preference in hell so y do I care however there are many instances where i have spilled out the bitter truth at the wrong place at the wrong time in front of the correct person :-) which is usually followed by a lot of hate feelings in such a case i think a lie would had really made my life easier. So go on lie and chill afterall all that matters in how our relations are with others conflicting with others is a serious waste of time and i definitely have better things to do in my life.A much easier soloution to the problem and the one most recomemded by me is if u have a problem with someone bcos some reason do not bring the reason on the table keep it withen u but do make sure that the person that irritates u in not on your table the code is simple "avoid conflicts keep away move on" works for me but may not work for many cos we usually feel that there is no problem that canot be solved by discussion this is our greatest misconception discussions brings out the evil withen us so better keep it in and after some time eraze it since too many botteled up bitter truths withen u can come out on a wrong person and can have distarous effects :-). Always remember u r not here to change the world and the ppl in it u r here to enjoy ur life so chilllout and enjoy every moment however small or big do not allow others to mess it cos they dont have the rights may sound a bit selfish but thats the best way to get through this mess called LIFE :-)
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